Two weeks ago my wife and I went to marriage counseling. And after the first session my wife informed me that she wanted a separation. I was devastated. Because we have two boys and I was crushed by the thought of losing everything important to my heart. She was much firmed with her decision. And said that there was absolutely nothing I could say or do to change her mind. She said she had tried and tried to get through to me but I never responded. And I knew that the only hope I had was to change my behaviour. But at this point, I have no clue as to how to be a better husband to her and to change. I grew up without a father around and a mother who was nasty about a divorce and she didn’t want it. That’s why I had no guidance, I was worthless. And this is what I feel for myself now.
Then I woke up this morning and I looked into the net for help and I searched for a good marriage counselor. Luckily, I found what I’m looking for. And I met Dr James and he gave me a lot of advices that will help me to save our marriage. But I know I still have a long road ahead of me to get my wife’s heart back. And I can tell from her body language that I still have a lot of making of and efforts to do. But at least now I have a chance. And I owe it to Dr James. I never wanted to give up on my wife. I still loved her more than ever. She’s my rock but I took her for granted. I want her to love me again and she’s very special to me.